Wednesday, June 7, 2017
DJ Jaffe's Open Letter to NAMI Affiliates and State Organizations About Serious Mental Illness
Mr. Steve Pittman
President National Alliance on Mental Illness
3803 N Fairfax Dr., Suite 100
Arlington, VA 22203
June 3, 2017
Dear Steve:
Hope all is well. Someone was kind enough to share with me, the letter you sent to all affiliates, concerning the upcoming NAMI Board elections. In your letter, you essentially argued that the National Alliance on Mental Illness should not focus its efforts on helping the seriously mentally ill because that would kick others out and create a smaller tent. That is not what we are arguing. We are arguing that by broadening NAMIs mission beyond the seriously mentally to encompass mental-everything, it is the seriously mentally ill who have been kicked out.
Candidates for the NAMI board, like me, were told not to campaign, and yet we find the NAMI President campaigning to influence the election, with NAMI resources, and couching issues in a way we would not. Your materials were distributed to NAMI voter mailing lists that we don’t have access to. Surely there is something wrong with that. Surely the election should be fair.
While sixteen candidates are running for five open board seats on various platforms, your letter specifically targeted the four (advocate Lauren Rettagliata, mental illness attorney Mary Zdanowicz, Dr. Rob Laitman, and I) because we are running on a “Focus on Serious Mental Illness” ticket that encourages NAMI to make the seriously mentally ill a more important priority. I am hoping you will share this response as soon as possible with the same affiliates and state organizations you sent your original letter to. As someone who like you, loves NAMI, I thank you for considering this. It is appreciated.
The moms and dads who sat around the dinner tables in Wisconsin, California, Maryland, Washington and elsewhere founded the National Alliance on Mental Illness because they had loved ones with schizophrenia, bipolar disorder and other serious and often devastating mental illnesses. But they were alone. Mental Health America existed, but its “big tent” approach ignored the needs of the most seriously ill. No organization was providing parents of the seriously mentally ill with support or advocating for treatments, research and services for the seriously ill, hence a NAMI was needed. Dr. Torrey came out with books on serious mental illness and did media interviews that turbo-charged the initial efforts of the NAMI founders. NAMI grew and became the leading organization representing the seriously mentally ill, while MHA continues to represent all others. I was proud to serve two terms on the NAMI National Board in the 1990s when we unapologetically prioritized the seriously ill.
Unfortunately (at least to many) NAMI National has strayed and it is the seriously ill who are paying the price. Many of us believe mission-creep is causing NAMI to ignore, marginalize and shun the seriously ill. We would like to help NAMI National do a better job on focusing on the most seriously mentally ill which is exactly what the moms, dads, siblings, children, local affiliates and some states still focus on.
Over the last fifteen years, to appease and make room for all the others in your big tent approach, NAMI National essentially kicked the seriously ill out.
Following are a few examples of how:
• NAMI replaced the phrase “mental illness” with the more palatable normalizing phrases “mental health conditions” or “behavioral health” favored by the higher functioning. The seriously mentally ill simply disappeared from the NAMI narrative.
• NAMI created formal media guidance urging the media not to use the word ‘suffering’ when talking about mental illness. Again, the seriously ill who do suffer were erased from the NAMI narrative.
• NAMI signed on to full page ad in the Washington Post against importing meds from Canada thereby making meds more expensive for the seriously mentally ill who often rely on medicine rather than talk therapies.
• NAMI robustly embraced replacing the scientific medical model with the recovery model parts of which lack a scientific basis and put every consumer in charge of their own recovery no matter how psychotic. For some of the seriously mentally ill, that does not work out well.
• NAMI National went from an organization that acknowledged and worked to reduce incidents of violence--for example by creating reports on rates of violence against family members by mentally ill relatives--to one that now refuses to recognize increased rates of violence in the untreated seriously ill. NAMI now hides behind the PC platitude that the mentally ill are no more violent than others. But that statement is not true for the untreated seriously ill, so NAMI simply ignores them. We believe it is violence by the untreated seriously ill minority that stigmatizes the non-violent majority, so it is particularly important for NAMI to play a role in reducing it. NAMI won’t even admit to the problem.
• NAMI has invited anti-psychiatry, Bazelon, Protection and Advocacy Programs, and the most radical consumer groups into the tent, in spite of their belief that psychosis is a civil right to be protected rather than an illness to be treated.
• NAMI decided that one of the important issues it should dedicate resources to was to proactively lobby to make it easier for the most seriously mentally ill to buy guns.
• After a direct vote by the entire NAMI membership calling on the NAMI board to expand access to Assisted Outpatient Treatment (AOT) to reduce homelessness, arrest, incarceration and hospitalization of the seriously mentally ill, NAMI sided with the ‘big tent’ advocates and simply refused to incorporate AOT in its advocacy. As a result, more individuals with serious mental illness are homeless and incarcerated.
• NAMI routinely diverts advocates who used to fight for more housing and programs, and against the prejudicial laws policies and politics that deny our seriously mentally ill loved ones care-- to fighting an amorphous concept of stigma. Stigma has become the black hole of advocacy diverting tens of thousands of advocates away from working for real legislative reform.
• NAMI’s big-tent approach causes NAMI to turn a blind eye as SAMHSA and other groups in the tent divert funds that should help the seriously mentally ill to programs to eliminate bad grades, poverty, hunger, bad parenting, angst about sexual identity, prostitution, sex trafficking, crime, unemployment, divorce, and truancy, by wrapping them in a mental health narrative.
• There are many other examples in my book, “Insane Consequences: How the Mental Health Industry Fails the Mentally Ill” of how the mental health industry, including NAMI National have largely abandoned the seriously ill. Your letter correctly claimed that “The 2017 candidates ... will influence the direction of NAMI for the next three years.” But I don’t think having four or five of the fifteen being concerned about the most seriously mentally ill influences it in a bad way. I think it is a good thing. Your majority can still outvote us if it wants, but at least the voices of the seriously ill will be heard.
It is not as if NAMI doesn’t have a priority already. The 2015-2019 NAMI strategic plan is to “Focus on Youth.” We believe it should be, “Focus on the Seriously Mentally Ill” whatever age they are. When kids age out, we want NAMI to be there for them. You are not really against ‘focusing’, which we advocate for, you just don’t want the focus to be on the seriously ill. Let the members decide. I respectfully disagree when you say members have embraced the recent years of mission-creep. I believe most members, affiliates, and many state organizations still focus on the seriously ill and would like NAMI National to do so too. I know you, as I, love NAMI. With that in mind, I hope you will refrain from trying to prevent a fair vote, and to mitigate the damage your campaigning did by sharing this letter with the same email list as quickly as possible.
Thank you very much for all you do. I look forward to hearing from you.
Sincerely,
DJ Jaffe
2017 Candidate for the NAMI Board on the “Focus on Serious Mental Illness” Ticket Two-term former NAMI National Board Member (1992-1998)
Co-founder and former board member of Treatment Advocacy Center Executive Director, Mental Illness Policy Org. Author, “Insane Consequences: How the Mental Health Industry Fails the Mentally Ill”
URGENT! CALL TO ACTION-Vote for the NAMI Board to Focus on Serious Mental Illness
Teresa Pasquini
El Sobrante, CA
JUN 3, 2017 — Dear Supporters,
First, it is critical that all signers of this petition, “educate, empower and engage” your local affiliate leaders in the upcoming NAMI Board of Directors election issues. There are critical decisions at stake and we all have to make our voices heard for the voiceless.
As I stated in my previous update, I strongly support the “Focus on Serious Mental Illness” ticket for the upcoming NAMI Board of Directors election. The ticket is made up of Lauren Rettagliata, Dj Jaffe, Mary Zdanowicz and Robert Laitman, M.D. Additionally, I also strongly support Frankie Berger who is NOT on the ticket but is a very strong advocate for people and families living with serious mental illnesses.
The voting process is currently underway and it does not allow individual members to cast votes. Therefore, it is imperative that each of you contact your local NAMI affiliate or State NAMI Org in writing and tell them to support the candidates who will focus on the needs of our families and loved ones who are living with serious mental illnesses.
Second, I want to express my strongest disappointment with the recent controversy started by the President of NAMI, Steve Pitman. This week, Mr. Pitman sent an email to local and state affiliates with a not so subtle message that I believe inappropriately steers members against the five candidates I listed above. This email and another written by the Executive Director of NAMI Maine has created a lot of controversy and anger among many NAMI members who feel that these NAMI leaders abused their power in an attempt to influence this upcoming NAMI Board election. See Pete Early's blog discussing this controversy:
NAMI Board President’s Email Sparks Controversy. Called ‘Unconscionable’ By “Focus on Serious Mental Illness” Candidate
I assume Mr. Pitman is a very good man and I respect his service to NAMI. However, the 5 people that I support for the Board of Directors are also good people who are dedicated advocates. They deserved a fair chance to present their positions without collusion and clear ballot engineering. Why are NAMI leaders allowed to campaign against these good people who are NAMI members in good standing?
Mr. Pitman’s email suggests a “big tent” vs. “small tent” competition between those who have declared a desire to focus NAMI on SMI. This again feels like “othering” to some of us who support the SMI focus and believe that our families have been left out of the “big tent” and forced into the “small tent” just like some of our loved ones have been forced into solitary jail cells. We do not feel embraced by the NAMI President's message. One advocate said, “No the issue is not big tent versus small tent-unless one wants the current circus show to continue. The issue is how can NAMI best improve the lives of those with serious mental illness. The MI in NAMI needs to mean something.”
It is clear from the comments on this petition that we all want NAMI to mean something more to our families. I know that Lauren Rettagliata, Dj Jaffe, Mary Zdanowicz, Robert Laitman, M.D. and Frankie Berger are committed to a tent that holds all perspectives with radical respect.
Sadly, I believe the 2017-2018 NAMI Board election has been compromised. It is the obligation of any non-profit’s Board and Executive Director to ensure trust in the organization and its board election process. Elections must carry the highest level of integrity and credibility that ensures those who are running feel it was fair. If there is a perception of tampering then the outcome may leave a smell of illegitimacy for those who lose or those who are elected. We have seen that scenario played out in our recent Presidential election. That has been bad for our democracy and it is also bad for NAMI. We must voice our objections to the current NAMI Board of Directors to the perceived bias against certain candidates. If unity is the desired goal, then NAMI must make equal room for all perspectives.
Finally, I became a NAMI member again last week before this controversy began and I won’t let this controversy push me out of the tent, big or small. I have a right to be in NAMI and voice my perspectives and it felt good to rejoin and re-engage. I felt warmly welcomed by my local NAMI Contra Costa chapter who also welcomed Dj Jaffe to speak at our NAMI Contra Costa FaithNet community training. I didn’t hear anyone complain about his presentation and heard many comments praising his book, Insane Consequences. There were many peers and family members present who were thrilled to have their books signed and photos were taken with the author. It was a great day of community building and shared learning. Isn’t that the way it is supposed to be at the state and national NAMI organizations, too?
I often refer to myself as a recovering angry mom. I have worked hard to take my anger wall down and work towards a system of care for all. So, I refuse to be silenced, shunned or pushed into a small tent. I have worked in local, state and national partnerships with many peers, families, providers and organizations to help improve the health, mental health, and mental illness systems. I have fought hard to protect the rights of families like mine and peers to be equal partners in co-creating system change.
Many family members with SMI adult children feel silenced, marginalized and unheard by NAMI’s shift to a “big tent” philosophy. It is my hope that NAMI will find a way to make room for us all to be together again in one tent and feel welcomed and embraced. I have seen it happen. It is possible.
First, it is critical that all signers of this petition, “educate, empower and engage” your local affiliate leaders in the upcoming NAMI Board of Directors election issues. There are critical decisions at stake and we all have to make our voices heard for the voiceless.
As I stated in my previous update, I strongly support the “Focus on Serious Mental Illness” ticket for the upcoming NAMI Board of Directors election. The ticket is made up of Lauren Rettagliata, Dj Jaffe, Mary Zdanowicz and Robert Laitman, M.D. Additionally, I also strongly support Frankie Berger who is NOT on the ticket but is a very strong advocate for people and families living with serious mental illnesses.
The voting process is currently underway and it does not allow individual members to cast votes. Therefore, it is imperative that each of you contact your local NAMI affiliate or State NAMI Org in writing and tell them to support the candidates who will focus on the needs of our families and loved ones who are living with serious mental illnesses.
Second, I want to express my strongest disappointment with the recent controversy started by the President of NAMI, Steve Pitman. This week, Mr. Pitman sent an email to local and state affiliates with a not so subtle message that I believe inappropriately steers members against the five candidates I listed above. This email and another written by the Executive Director of NAMI Maine has created a lot of controversy and anger among many NAMI members who feel that these NAMI leaders abused their power in an attempt to influence this upcoming NAMI Board election. See Pete Early's blog discussing this controversy:
NAMI Board President’s Email Sparks Controversy. Called ‘Unconscionable’ By “Focus on Serious Mental Illness” Candidate
I assume Mr. Pitman is a very good man and I respect his service to NAMI. However, the 5 people that I support for the Board of Directors are also good people who are dedicated advocates. They deserved a fair chance to present their positions without collusion and clear ballot engineering. Why are NAMI leaders allowed to campaign against these good people who are NAMI members in good standing?
Mr. Pitman’s email suggests a “big tent” vs. “small tent” competition between those who have declared a desire to focus NAMI on SMI. This again feels like “othering” to some of us who support the SMI focus and believe that our families have been left out of the “big tent” and forced into the “small tent” just like some of our loved ones have been forced into solitary jail cells. We do not feel embraced by the NAMI President's message. One advocate said, “No the issue is not big tent versus small tent-unless one wants the current circus show to continue. The issue is how can NAMI best improve the lives of those with serious mental illness. The MI in NAMI needs to mean something.”
It is clear from the comments on this petition that we all want NAMI to mean something more to our families. I know that Lauren Rettagliata, Dj Jaffe, Mary Zdanowicz, Robert Laitman, M.D. and Frankie Berger are committed to a tent that holds all perspectives with radical respect.
Sadly, I believe the 2017-2018 NAMI Board election has been compromised. It is the obligation of any non-profit’s Board and Executive Director to ensure trust in the organization and its board election process. Elections must carry the highest level of integrity and credibility that ensures those who are running feel it was fair. If there is a perception of tampering then the outcome may leave a smell of illegitimacy for those who lose or those who are elected. We have seen that scenario played out in our recent Presidential election. That has been bad for our democracy and it is also bad for NAMI. We must voice our objections to the current NAMI Board of Directors to the perceived bias against certain candidates. If unity is the desired goal, then NAMI must make equal room for all perspectives.
Finally, I became a NAMI member again last week before this controversy began and I won’t let this controversy push me out of the tent, big or small. I have a right to be in NAMI and voice my perspectives and it felt good to rejoin and re-engage. I felt warmly welcomed by my local NAMI Contra Costa chapter who also welcomed Dj Jaffe to speak at our NAMI Contra Costa FaithNet community training. I didn’t hear anyone complain about his presentation and heard many comments praising his book, Insane Consequences. There were many peers and family members present who were thrilled to have their books signed and photos were taken with the author. It was a great day of community building and shared learning. Isn’t that the way it is supposed to be at the state and national NAMI organizations, too?
I often refer to myself as a recovering angry mom. I have worked hard to take my anger wall down and work towards a system of care for all. So, I refuse to be silenced, shunned or pushed into a small tent. I have worked in local, state and national partnerships with many peers, families, providers and organizations to help improve the health, mental health, and mental illness systems. I have fought hard to protect the rights of families like mine and peers to be equal partners in co-creating system change.
Many family members with SMI adult children feel silenced, marginalized and unheard by NAMI’s shift to a “big tent” philosophy. It is my hope that NAMI will find a way to make room for us all to be together again in one tent and feel welcomed and embraced. I have seen it happen. It is possible.
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